All You've Got to do is Say...No

(image courtesty of meppol on deviantart.com)

Sometimes as much as you want to say yes, you know the answer should be no. Temptation always seems to mount when you're in a relationship. That guy you'd wondered "what if" about for an eternity finally decides he's ready to show you exactly what you've been missing (oo and it's a lot). If you're strong, you say no and you deny yourself that exquisite pleasurable experience. If you've got the backbone of a snail, you succumb, let yourself fold into the passionate throws and the next day (granted you have the capacity to feel shame) you stare at the tattered shreds of your morality that have all gone to hell.

Whether the night in question is worth it is up for debate. If you said no and wake to find the other side of the bed empty, your mind may wander and linger on all sorts of dark places. While you contemplate what could have been you can take solace in knowing you did the right thing (even if your body is aching for the caresses of the lover you denied). As for those of you that said yes, you should now do the right thing and say goodbye to your relationship, or else yours is one of the 0.001% that can survive infidelity (make no mistake, you are most likely not the exception).

That's all she wrote...For Now